2011年8月30日 星期二

PARENTS CAN HELP KIDS GET OVER THEIR FEARS 家長可協助孩子克服恐懼1

Useful tips on how to deal with scared kids
處理孩子恐懼心態的有用訣竅
Emily Clearwater, 7, says she isn’t afraid of anything. Her mother, Jennifer Clearwater of Port Washington.Wis., would disagree. “I know something you’re scared of that you’re not admitting to. Insects,” Jennifer said. “You’re scared of bugs!” As it turns out, Emily also is afraid of getting shots, the dark (but only “kind of”) and getting lost (which is often the subject of her bad dreams). She isn’t alone. All children have fears – it’s a natural part of life. Overcoming them is a rite of passage and a sign that we’re growing up.
For advice on coping with common childhood fears, we spoke with pediatric psychologist Andrea Begotka and clinical psychologist Kathleen Longeway of Children’s Hospital of Wisconsin.

Separation Anxiety
Why it’s common:
Begotka said this boils down to the attachment a child has to his or her parents.

How to overcome it:
Begotka’s 15-month-old son, Jake, just went through a mild separation anxiety phase. She said the key is to establish trust between you and your child. “We came and left the room frequently when home to show him that we come back when we leave.” she said.




Getting shots打針
Getting lost迷路
A rite of passage
Pediatric àchildren’s doctor
Clinical
Boil down to somethingàmain point, the source of
Phaseàstage

Chat room
Kind of有點、有幾分
Are you hungry?
Yes, I’m kind of hungry.
Yes, kind of.
Kinda (很口語的用法,避免用在正式的文章當中)
She’s kinda weird.她有點怪怪的

Key word
A rite of passage成年禮
Rite 儀式
Passage通過

In this tribe, hunting your first bear is considered an important rite of passage.
在這個部落,獵殺第一隻熊被視為重要的成年禮

Getting a part-time job in high school is a rite of passage in my family.
讀高中的時候找到一份兼差的工作是我們家的成年禮

Clinical臨床上的
Clinic 臨床
All interns are required to have hundreds of clinical training hours before they can become a formal doctor.
實習醫生需要數百小時的臨床訓練才能成為正式的醫生
Clinical trial of the treatment will take several years.
這個治療法的臨床實驗將花上好幾年的時間

Boil down to something 歸結為、歸納為
All the problems at school can be boiled down to the child’s need for attention.
這個小孩子在學校的所有問題都可以歸結到他想引人注意

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